Spirit Dancing with My Fairy Self and Living in Fairy
What do I mean, when I talk about being my Fairy Self and living
in Fairy Land?
Being my ‘Fairy Self’ is the joyous act of allowing the freest, most exuberant, light-filled part
of me to shine through and spill over into wherever I am and whatever I am doing in the moment, and so everything
gets touched as though kissed by pixies. I call this being my Fairy Self as, for me, it so aptly and truly
represents and evokes this most enlivening vision I have of myself; ‘Fairy Self’ is my own magical cue for
reminding me of my own true Self - ever-changing, ever-growing and enchanting (of course, you can choose whatever
vision works for you - evoking your truest, most vibrant, loving and expanded Self).
Aaah!! This is such joy to be sharing this with you :) And so I find myself living in Fairy Land,
inhabited by not just ‘fairies’, but so many other fantastical beings of the otherworldly perception and persuasion
too. And as I tap into my imagination and expand my awareness through acting out being and playing my Fairy Self,
not only am I aware of their enchanting presence around me, I even have the exquisite and bewitching experience of
these amazing beings prancing and dancing right here with me, in my everyday physical life.
Ha-ha, even as I am typing these words, a flash of iridescent blue catches my eye as a blue
elemental has just flitted down and landed, glowing gracefully on my keyboard, to say ‘Hello’!
For, part of being a Fairy, to me, means being in touch with, and having and enjoying a loving and
playful relationship, with the true Me and my higher-dimensional self, as well as with my elemental, etheric and
angelic friends of the fairy realm – my Fairy Self in my Fairy Land.
In turn, I’m bringing that exquisite energy and vibration into my everyday life, thereby adding
richness, creative depth and an ecstatic tonal scale to not only my creative expression, but also to whatever is my
joy in the moment.
Living in Fairy
Exaltations!! ‘Fairy Land’ is not another world – it is my current world
extended. We don’t need to go to a different dimension to find this Fairy Land, but to simply expand the
availability and visibility of the dimensions of this world. It would be similar to the idea of extending your
visual range to include infrared and ultraviolet - they were both already there before, but invisible to us as
we are normally only aware of a narrower bandwidth of red to blue. And so it is in our reality: it is teaming
with so much richness and life and beauty and form; but it’s all hidden from our normal sight - we’re missing
out on such glorious delights, iridescent colours and neon experiences that are all very much alive, vital,
real and here, right now!
For me, Fairy Land is my template reality; it’s just as real as our everyday world. It’s not just
me escaping off into some imagined fairy world and ‘playing with the fairies’, but it’s me expanding my perception
to include: all the elemental beings - nature spirits, tree dryads and flower spirits; fauns and dwarves; elves,
sprites, sylphs, nymphs and pixies; as well as all that which is fey or other worldly, such as the angelic beings
and other dimensional beings - including the extraterrestrials, such as my beloved Arcturians and Sirians; and even
higher dimensional entities that often make their appearance as radiant balls of unconditional love and blazing
All these figures are common in the myths, legends and fairy tales of many diverse cultures, and I
believe that they are not mere fiction; my own direct experience of them has shown me that they are very much real
and that they have an intelligence and heart.
And most of all they have been my friends: they’ve been with me in my deepest
dark, as well as my most exalted moments - rejoicing with me in my creative surges and surfings. They are
dancing by my side when I walk in the wild places, they tussle and play with my hair in the wind, they imprint
themselves in the great amethyst halls of my imagination and spiral out from my being in creative play,
whooping and harrumphing as they incite me to create and make great art with gay abandon – often my room, for
example, becomes a sea of swirling lights, twinkling like a galaxy of stars, streaming from the heart of my
They leave their heavenly handicraft in other places too, such as in graffiti of love etched in the
crop circles amidst the swirling. waving fields of golden wheat where I have sung in communion with them from my
heart … and when I listen, I hear them speak to me in their tinkling and tones in the air - wind chimes for my
My physical interactions with the extraterrestrials have also turned my world upside down to reveal
to me the truer nature of things. But I’ve often really had to embrace my shadow when I’ve met them; in particular,
my encounter with the Sirian Blues, appearing to me here on the cliffs one day, was so pure, so rich, so loving and
high-vibrational that it provoked so much of my dark side to come rushing to the surface and nearly took me to the
brink; but I knew I would rather embrace the wild lushness of lunacy, than settle for the sterile shallowness of
so-called ‘sanity’. But I did not break up - I broke free!!! Meeting them changed me forever; for I saw all of
myself, and it was so beautiful and profound - and to be any less of me, to be any less love, less light, less
free, is like a death to me now.
Only recently, in the midst of one of my daily sojourns, and feeling particularly light and buoyant as I
wandered through a freshly shaven crop field running parallel to the rugged North cliffs here in Cornwall, I had a
most unexpected encounter - coalescing out of the swirling, spangled mists and diaphanous clouds, and stepping down
gently to physically grace my presence on the sandy path right in front of me was … a unicorn! A pair of the most
beautiful, celestial blue-violet eyes were staring back at me beneath its flaxen fringe, with its blazing white
coat glinting in the sun and the familiar golden cone on its noble forehead heralding its royal and mystical
presence. It was as real and tangible as the full blast of the Atlantic wind blowing hard in my face. Gazing into
its clear eyes was like looking into the eyes of God - I have never felt such purity of love and innocence. It made
me weep with joy, for it struck such a resonant cord in me – for I had tasted Unconditional Love, and I knew in my
heart that this was what I had always so desperately yearned for. The unicorn had showered its Love
upon me to a degree way beyond what I had ever experienced before - it touched me to my core ... and it has
since become my sacred touch point and the enigmatic emblem of my heart.
For most people, though, these beings only ‘exist’ in some seemingly a parallel or dream reality,
or just in books and films. As a result, I believe that the human spirit has suffered a calcification and hardness,
a heartache and loss - our hearts having lost the child in us, as well as the beliefs in fairies and magic, and
that miracles are a normal everyday event. I feel most of us have spent our lives being cut off from this rich
streaming and sparkling resource of our consciousness, which gives us such a rich source of inspiration, inventions
and ideas for our greatest potential in creative self-expression in design, art, music, architecture, etc., etc.,
as well as laying a natural template for how we wish to live our lives.
But my message to you is that Fairy Land is real and alive, and part of our lost consciousness -
the secret to our magical selves; being in touch with it buoys us up to incredible lightness of being, freedom and
creative self-expression. Fairy Land is our natural way and magic is our natural state; that’s why we love fairy
tales - they are helping us key into our lost kingdom and to dance with our lives and each other up to a new
Unicorn Image (c) Anne Stokes
- AnneStokes.com and at Deviant Art
Fairy Self and opening to more
Living in Fairy Land, then, is a state of being, and encourages me to be child-like and open to all
possibilities and magic, and to be in an open and connected way with my Fairy Self, my life, and everyone, and
ultimately my whole world - my whole Fairy Land; and through this loving communion with ourselves, each other and
our planet I feel we can create the World of our Dreams.
For me, being open to the ‘Fairy’ is like a secret gateway back to the
magician realm of not only imagination, but truly our underlying template reality – one that is rich and
loaded with other-dimensional gateways and secret passages. And by going through these gateways to other
realms it opens us up to more, so much more, that can be learnt and absorbed to bring into our expanding
So, in Spirit Dancing, I use the terms my Fairy Self and my Fairy Land because they really help me
cue into the real me and tune-in to my true world. Since I started being and living as my true Fairy Self, I have
not only felt more and more ecstatic, but at the same time, more and more connected to our Earth, because I feel in
communion with it, and thus in a perfect relationship to dance and play with my reality - just like being a
Embracing the fairy
- dancing and beaming my fairyland into reality – changing my world
For a long time I struggled with life - I felt unsure in relationship to my
life; I felt disconnected somehow, until, that is, I allowed myself to step into being the fairy being I know
I am, and to honour and live that fey other-worldly aspect as me in my life and in my relationship to others,
and to enjoy such an amazing lightness and freedom of being.
And, you know what? I have come to realize that life really is a fairy tale! And that we can all
magic up the world of our dreams using the magic wand of our imagination and the power of our passion, as well as
our feeling of intimacy with the whole of our creation - like the nature spirits that we naturally are.
This very act of being helps us into a sensitive, sensual and sublime relationship with not only
ourselves, but also our entire life and most of all our Earth, the whole of our Earth: we are in communion with her
as part of, as an extension of, our own Selves.
And so, we are so connected to her through our heart, for she is our body - the echo of our
delight. Actually, there is no need to heal our Earth when we are integrated within ourselves, for we naturally
find ourselves in another world, a new world already healed: in the world of our most fantastic Dream - for each
and every one of us is our Dream World.
My life really did start getting more and more magical the moment I let go of
all the negative voices in my head (most of which I learnt as a child) that said ‘fairy is not real,’ that I
was being ‘away with the fairies.’ Little did I know at the time that those accusations of me were actually my
deepest truth! But, it was all given such a negative slant that I felt wrong to pursue it; until, eventually,
I came to an exhausted stop - having used up all my physical resources in trying to make my life work. There
was nowhere else to go except to surrender to my Fairy Self and Fairy Land!
However, since I started embracing the fairy in me and my world, my life really has become more and
more fantastic, and so much easier, expansive, thrilling and abundant with synchronicities and the flow of creative
expression. My life really is working so much better; but it feels like I am NOT working: I am playing, having fun
- I am embracing the fey in me; I am being whole.
My Fairy Book
The most significant way this has happened for me has been through the writing of my own fairy
novel for the past four years. I had originally began creating it just for me, as I began to remember and
acknowledge that, deep down, I had always felt that Fairy Land was my true and real reality, and that being my
Fairy Self was very much part of my core and reason for being here (even though those voices had tried to convince
me otherwise!) But I didn’t know how I could be that me and live my life here in this seemingly so unfairy-like
world, and how I could be supported in being that version of me.
I can see now, that my book has not only helped me find my way to live my life
as my true and natural Fairy Self and thereby create my own healing myth, but, joy of joys, through being and
living out the magical tale of my book I am experiencing my world now rapidly changing and Fairy Land becoming
more present, and more alive and real right here, right now on my increasingly Fairy Land version of Earth - I
even feel now that this is all part our natural evolution!
My book constantly astounds me: it continually draws out of me my own innate genius and creative
expression that I didn’t know I was capable of - until I started writing my book - and at the same time, it is
helping me live the life I have always wanted and to be my Fairy Self ever more freely, unconditionally,
ecstatically and deeply in love with my entire Fairy Land world.
So, in following and acting on my passion, my book has become my guide and my lover, constantly
encouraging and enticing me to be more and more of my true Self. This kind of writing is true Spirit Dancing; I
love my book so much, that I can’t wait to get out of bed each day to do continue - excited about what more I will
discover about myself, as it consumes me and enthrals me!
And most of all, through writing my book as the book ‘I have always wanted to read’, it
has helped me magic my world in every aspect into a fairy wonderland and the world of my be-longing. Thus, then,
this is an example of Spirit Dancing taken to the next level: allowing myself to be extended, seduced and
enthralled, not only into to being more of my true and natural Fairy Self, but also, by extension, into my Fairy
Land world through acting and sharing freely that which is begging to be uniquely expressed through me.
Truly: me, my passion and my world have become a match made in heaven!
A match made in heaven and creating the
world of your Dreams
Now, my experience is that our dreams, fantasies and fairy tales are all real
too - as real as the reality you are experiencing right now; in fact, I would say a more real or truer version
of who you really are. We have pushed and ostracised those parts of ourselves into the fringes of our society
as mere fancy and escape. Whereas at one time we lived so in tune with the elementals, fairies and other
dimensional beings - like unicorns, for instance – and, of course, with all of Nature (and some of us even
have memories of this from past or parallel, dream lives in Mu, Lemuria, Atlantis, etc., and through
connections to other star systems, like Arcturus, Sirius, the Pleiades and the Andromeda galaxy). We were so
connected and in communion with Nature and our entire planet and as our partner, in a loving relationship with
it, and from that connection to everything through the centre of our being - our heart - we felt and knew true
power, for we were in communion with all of our creation.
So, I’m saying that we are all already familiar with this, at some level of our being, and that the
reason we often look to our dreams to escape, or to fairy tales or myths, is because they are in fact part of our
lost consciousness, our lost world; and bringing that aspect of ourselves back to Earth and integrating into our
life here now, not only adds amazing dimensionality, joy, love and magic to our lives, but it is also creating a
beautiful and harmonious, green, verdant and loving planet. I believe that re-membering (as opposed to
dismembering!) and rekindling this realm as part of our lost memories and soul is all part and parcel of the
creation of the world of our greatest soul desire.
Who do you turn to, when you resonate with these ideas and experiences?
Often we just shut such urgings and aspirations down because there’s no one there to dance with!
But, what my fellow Spirit Dancers (‘clients’!) have shared is that they are so delighted to have found someone in
me that they can not only talk to and make sense of it all, but also, because I’m already living so much in that
space and loving energy, can really be a genuine guide for them to live it, believe in it, express it, etc.
So, if you feel this desire to have some help, encouragement and guidance in rediscovering your
most fantastic Self and living that version of you to the hilt - I invite you to step into the magical realm and
come and dance with me; and together we can help you be all that you are and make your heaven on Earth
Because (and I get so passionate about this!) it is about bringing Fairy Land back to our Earth
plane through living from our Fairy state of light, beingness, magic and creativity, and then being so in love with
our creation - just like fairies do.
This is what Spirit Dancing helps you into; through its lessons in light and expansions in love, we
turn our preconceptions and prejudices upside down and spin them in the air; we learn to play and have fun as we
re-member our innate wisdom, our extraordinary intuition and perception and release our creativity - to truly fly
in a high tapping, vibrational flowing, and freedom of expression and love with our reality.
As you start your Spirit Dancing you will naturally bring in more exciting interactions with both
your true self and the extended, previously unseen, spirit world around you, thus accelerating, both your immediate
ecstasy, as well as your ability to create, live and dance with the world of your highest aspirations - leading you
by your heart into ecstasy, which is love in motion.
This is all sped along by inviting and naturally attracting others around you to join you in Spirit
Dancing – which you will do automatically as you begin embodying it yourself and expressing it through your joy, in
whatever you are drawn to do.
For in Spirit Dancing, from our true selves, we dance and play with everything
around us as our partners in creation, working with the spirits in nature to assist us. And, as we Spirit
Dance together, through our exalted state of being, creativity, inspirations and actions, we create our
beautiful planet more akin to our dream template, adding such dimensionality and joy to our own lives that we
are literally co-creating a new world to live in, one that truly reflects who we really are and the world we
truly long for – the world of our be-longing.
In this version of our Earth, there are no environmental issues, wars, or disharmony, for we are so
in tune and integral within ourselves, each other and our world - truly a perfectly green planet.
I hope you will Spirit Dance with me in this wide, wild, wonderful and expansive world of the fairy
(or whatever you may call it!), so that together we may find your Fairy Self and bring that magic touch to our
Earth, to live here now at a higher dimensional frequency in our Fairy Land.
If what I share chimes with your soul – do talk to me and we can book your free introductory
session (see this page for options); I shall be so honoured and so excited to hear from
In the Spirit of Love